Non-social spirits aren't going to bond and connect like social spirits. When you have non-social spirits they do not engage you with conversation and interaction like other spirits, they contribute through non-social interaction, which can include things like manifestation in light form, movement of objects, phantom sounds, etc. Non-social spirits are also more likely to appear in dreams, and communicate through interaction in dream sequences. Their lack of social communication does not mean a lack of their presence.
For some, it can be difficult to bond with a non-social spirit if you've never done it before, but once you get the hang of it, you'll have an easier time with other non-social spirits. They will bond with you over time and over participation in your life with their particular skill-set.